Grace is stronger than the grudge “Forgiving You For Me” by Lauren Gruwell is a song written by Pat Melfi, and it’s the fourth release for Lauren’s upcoming album. The theme of the song touches a truth many people seem to want to avoid or just don’t realize. Forgiveness isn’t about the other person at all. Lauren sings about carrying someone’s words “like stones in my chest,” replaying memories that stole her rest. Sound familiar? Most of us have held a grudge, convinced it gave us control. But that is control built on bitterness, and that negativity will always cause it to collapse. That negativity is like a bad spot on an apple. If you don’t take it out, it will continue to affect everything around it… The song captures the moment when holding on stops feeling like justice and starts feeling like a prison. Then comes the whisper: “This isn’t justice, this is your soul.” That’s the shift we need to make. To stop the negative energy from spiralling through us and contamina...