Grudges or grace — which one am I holding onto? “Seventy Times Seven” by Tony Thomas opens with a guess. “Three? Seven?” Tony wonders, unsure how many times forgiveness is required before it’s enough. It’s a fair question. Most of us keep some kind of tally, even if we’d never admit it out loud. ‘Enough is enough…’ , ‘This can’t go on…’ , ‘There’s a limit to my patience…’ , etc. The lyrics go back to a real conversation between the apostle Peter and Jesus. Peter once asked Jesus the same question, wondering if seven times was generous enough. Jesus answered with “seventy times seven” . The message here is that math was never the point. It’s about breaking the habit of counting altogether. That answer sits at the center of Matthew 18:21–22 (NKJV), where Peter asks Jesus, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? Up to seven times?” Jesus replied, “I do not say to you, up to seven times, but up to seventy times seven.” In Biblical numerology...